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Question 1: Recently I ran into an old fuck-buddy of mine, and I really want to get together with him for some fun...the problem is both he and I have significant others. My boyfriend has hinted, tho, that he might be willing to try swinging...and that sounds like a great way to have some fun with my friend without cheating...what do you think?
Answer: Ack! Hold on just a minute...are you really thinking of swinging for the right reasons? Will you be interested in swinging with someone other than your old fuck buddy? Do you think your boyfriend might be upset when he discovers you and your friend have had sex before?
It's great that both of you are open enough to consider swinging, but our suggestion is to give it a try a few times with someone other than your old friend and his girlfriend...if everything is cool, then approach your boyfriend about the fuck buddy. And don't be surprised if he still gets upset...he's going to worry that there's some 'unfinished business' between the two of you on an emotional level. And you'd better be sure 100 percent that there isn't some 'unfinished business' before you ask!