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If you have a swinger-related question you need answered, email us at
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| Question 1: Recently I ran into an old fuck-buddy of
mine, and I really want to get together with him for some fun...the
problem is both he and I have significant others. My boyfriend has
hinted, tho, that he might be willing to try swinging...and that
sounds like a great way to have some fun with my friend without
cheating...what do you think? |
Answer: Ack! Hold on just a minute...are you really
thinking of swinging for the right reasons? Will you be interested
in swinging with someone other than your old fuck buddy? Do
you think your boyfriend might be upset when he discovers you and
your friend have had sex before?
It's great that both of you are open enough to consider swinging,
but our suggestion is to give it a try a few times with someone
other than your old friend and his girlfriend...if everything is
cool, then approach your boyfriend about the fuck buddy. And
don't be surprised if he still gets upset...he's going to worry that
there's some 'unfinished business' between the two of you on an
emotional level. And you'd better be sure 100 percent that there
isn't some 'unfinished business' before you ask! |
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